Saying "no" to the wrong thing is not "self love", it's being a responsible human and making wise use of your God-given conscience...
Saying "no" when your plate is overflowing and you're getting burnt out is not "self care", but is also being a responsible human and using your God-given time wisely.
(This is only one of many examples of world-indoctrination - that has crept into the church - and it's nauseating.)
Please stop equating common sense with self-love.
Please stop equating God's blessings with self-care.
Please stop humouring the culture by buying into the unbiblical agenda of self-centeredness.
I've said it before and I'll say it again: when the Bible says to love your neighbor as yourself it states up front that you love yourself; it's not something you will ever have to learn or put effort into.
Stop equating being irresponsible or lacking common sense with a lack of self-love.
And learning to be responsible or to better use common sense or to humbly appreciate God's blessings are also - you guessed it - not self-love/care.
It's called good stewardship.
Thank you.
