Paradox

I've read that the INFJ is a paradox and it's so true, especially as far as the frequent assumptions go...

People always assume that the INFJ are the quiet yet blunt type (which we are), but they are also the deeply sentimental, and when we're quiet it's sometimes because we feel fake in surface trivialities...get your INFJ friend talking about whimsical, somewhat deep, sentimental things, and you'll wish they were quiet. ;)